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Just a tip. If you really love a girl and want her to be happy, try to be a little more sensitive to what she's going through. Telling her to remove "that thing" in her and stop wasting money on cancer treatment is kind of a stupid thing to say and doesn't give her the impression that you care about her and want her to be happy. It makes it come across as you're being a selfish jerk. Think about that.